No Judgements & No Haters

I should have maybe made this my first post, what the hey - as they say better late than never.

This website was started from a place deep in my heart and from my own personal experiences. Now these personal experiences I am referring to in more detail as being judged or labeled or knowing that I was going to be.

That fact still sits true that my own mother could not be trusted with emotions or situations when negative or bad things happened. Especially those that did not conform to her high perfect standards of acceptability.

I am not here to repeat her actions or judgments. I have another version of living my life and my truth.

Shit happened. Not happens. Yes it does happen daily, we are here to adjust ourselves to a new daily routine that will curb that shit happens per day marginally.

I am also here to assist you in those stuff that happened that you feel your alone with on an island. I am open to any discussion.

Except for being blessed with a non judgmental gene from my father, I was an attorney for many years in Private Practice, as well as my fair share of personal cluster fucks.

Thus l am making the suggestion that if you tend to go on Facebook and critisize easily or look down on people choices or mistakes because you are seemingly perfect. This is not the website for you.

I am not here to win any awards or medals for my site or myself. Either Hate me or Love me, but I will be with you.

If you have issues with addiction, mental illness, abortion, battery or affairs or what may the longest list of everything that could go wrong or have gone wrong with others. I do bet you have one extra big skeleton no one knows about. As the saying goes, everybody does it nobody talks about it.

This here is for people with flaws, that have made choices they may not be proud of and that has the guts to want to move forward and be a better version of themselves.

Here I do not call a spade a spade. I call it a shovel. (one of my dad's favorite sayings when I did something I should have known to rethink)

Now with that my lovelies - let the Games begin :)