The Chicken Comes Home for the Roast(ing)

Yeah I am all for live your life in peace and wish others what is to be theirs. I do grant this beautiful sun that I take so much photos of, to shine over each and everyone the same.

I do also wish others what they deserve in life, and with some foresight I am usually privey to the cluster fuck for them up ahead.

Remember, we all have the option of living our truth. Thus I prefer to share my foresight and open the not so rosey option for discussion.

Very peculiar about this specific scenario - it is always born from a challenging situation for me; where a person is very vocal about the truths I must not miss in my own navigation of my heart, life, circumstances, kids...... What I am trying to get across - I don't make excuses or sugar coat shit in my life. Not to put it as less important, I do not go around and compare. I prefer to keep my shit fresh and healthy as my unique hurdle.

To add insult to injury, Murphy will have it that the vocal very critical person is faced with a carbon copy situation as my own predicament.

I have worked very hard to find peace since 2017 when my father passed over, in conjunction with his passing the universe as I knew it fell off kilt. I was so blindsided by my whole family including my own children I lost everything. I was driven from my home, my business, my life as I knew it for as long as I could remember.

That is a road and story for another day. Point being - I have no secrets, I am my own island. I can't blame any one of the participants that they influenced the others. Life is a series of choices. Free will. I could never point a finger and blame my ex husband for my kids behavior and subsequent choices. Age is not a factor.

Choices were made, they were stuck to and they were executed and well followed through. Goes to show commitment to the cause. Including ages from 6 through to 60 plus. Each with their own agenda and end game, not giving a fuck about anyone else.

(I know - it does bring a nice topic for a group pow wow forth. Kids and the age of innocence or as I like to call it - age of invention).

Now the shit gets interesting here - you remember the high and mighty critical companion/friend that we all have; has had a Tsunami similar to yours in the time being whilst you were sorting your shit.

All the well crafted excuses, stages, phases and influences from outside or third parties have led down the same road. Free will - and as per foresight not remotely the outcome as expected.

Yeah the same shit I faced a mere while ago; with uninterrupted commentary and criticism. My honest opinion and open conversation regarding the topic is not welcomed.

I can and may now refer to the comparisons made. The excuses have dulled down, yet no decisive decision is made, none of the wonderful pearls of wisdom that was given to me is taken under advisement.

This begs the question - can someone really be that naive and blind, or is it just more fun being passive aggressive to the people your supposed to care about.